The Lost Daughters of China: Adopted Girls, Their Journey to America, and the Search fora Missing Past

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In 1997 journalist Karin Evans walked into an orphanage in southern China and met her new daughter, a beautiful one-year-old baby girl. In this fateful moment Evans became part of a profound, increasingly common human drama that links abandoned Chinese girls with foreigners who have traveled many miles to complete their families.

At once a compelling personal narrative and an evocative portrait of contemporary China, The Lost Daughters of China has also served as an invaluable guide for thousands of readers as they navigated the process of adopting from China. On the other hand, much has changed with regards to the Chinese government?s policies on adoption since this book was originally published and in this revised and updated edition Evans addresses these developments. Also new to this edition is a riveting chapter in which she describes her return to China in 2000 to adopt her second daughter who was nearly three at the time. Some of the first girls to be adopted from China are now in the teens (China only opened its doors to adoption in the 1990s), and this edition includes accounts of their experiences growing up in the US and, in some cases, of returning to China looking for their roots.

Illuminating the real-life stories in the back of the statistics, The Lost Daughters of China is an unforgettable account of the red thread that winds form China?s orphanages to loving families around the globe.
The Lost Daughters of China is that rare book that can be many things to different people. Part memoir, part travelogue, part East-West cultural remark, and part adoption how-to, Karin Evans’s book is greater than the sum of its parts. Evans weaves together her experience of adopting a Chinese infant with observations about Chinese women’s history and that country’s restrictive, if unevenly enforced, reproductive policies. She and her husband adopted Kelly Xiao Yu in 1997, and anyone curious about adopting from a Chinese orphanage–which houses girls and disabled boys–will learn about the mechanics and the emotional freight of the two-year process. Borrowing an image from Chinese folklore, Evans conveys herself, her husband, and their daughter as tethered by a red string that yoked them across an ocean and an equally awesome cultural divide.

The elegant prose is spiced with bits of ironic cultural dissonance. A discount shopper, Evans “felt more than a little extraordinary buying China-made [baby] clothes with which to bundle up a tiny baby, one of China’s own, and bring her home.” On a bus tour through southern China, she is one of a “bunch of Americans with Chinese infants singing ‘Que Sera Sera’ in the course of a sea of traffic. Will she be happy? Will she be rich?” To suddenly hear Doris Day over the horns of a Kowloon traffic jam is heady stuff indeed.

The Lost Daughters of China is at its best when describing Evans’s tally of emotional loss and gain. At one point the bureaucratic adoption process is unaccountably delayed, but her father dies all over that time and she’s able to sit down by his bedside. The most mysterious example of this emotional calculus is Kelly’s birth mother. Evans invents many plausible scenarios that caused this unknown woman to abandon her three-month-old daughter at a market. These incomplete, necessarily provisional stories help give a face to the larger cultural processes that compel new parents to abandon 1.7 million girl babies annually. The stuff of headlines–human rights, infanticide, rural and urban poverty–is rendered personally relevant in Evans’s compelling book. –Kathi Inman Berens

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