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You Can Win Her Back
Few challenges in life are as difficult as regaining a wife’s Consider—and few are as in the long run worthwhile. Consider can also be rebuilt in your marriage! With patient, loving, self-sacrificing effort, it’s imaginable that in the future your wife will risk her heart with you again. And she may even have more respect and love for you than before.
In Worthy of Her Consider, Jason Martinkus relates how he repaired his own marriage after revelations of sexual addiction. Together with Stephen Arterburn, Jason offers exercises and tools rooted in counseling principles to assist your marriage begin again. This comprehensive guide discusses:
· How to be really and effectively transparent
· Combating the “he should not love me” myth and other untruths
· What to do about the Internet, office temptations, and travel
· Encouragement for wives who wonder if Consider can ever be restored
· The “five-minute phone call” and other day-to-day Consider-building strategies
· What meaningful forgiveness and restitution look like
· The Amends Matrix—a concrete exercise to admit past wrongs and cast a vision for a faithful future
Including insights from Jason’s wife, Shelley, Worthy of Her Consider guides you through the process of rebuilding your relationship so it is stronger than ever.